Okay, I'm officially 'over' this pregnancy. It is officially 'no fun' anymore. Seriously, I am so uncomfortable and moody that I can't believe I have 9 more weeks to go.
Here is the state of affairs with me:
Work: I'm still working, from home as much as possible but still seeing clients a couple of times per week. I try to keep appointments to 2 max per day, as I run out of gas by 2-3pm and need a nap. Working from home is a challenge also - sitting at my desk working on a computer is hell on my upper back and I have to lay down periodically to give the back a rest.
Sleep: I still sleep well at night - thank goodness. I get up to pee frequently, but fall back to sleep pretty easily. And my extra thick mattress pad and body pillow are life savers. I had terrible hip pain this time last pregnancy - I have a little now, but not enough to complain about.
My naps are also frequent and excellent. I get into deep sleep during relatively short naps, which is great.
Eating: I am hungry every few hours, but not much appeals to me. And I fill up so quickly, and I'm uncomfortable when I forget to pace myself. Overeating is easy to do, so I have to slow down and eat less.
Wrists: Pregnancy-induced carpal tunnel in both wrists. This has been going on for 3 weeks now. The wrist supports help, but not by much. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and my entire arm is numb. I can't type much at work due to the supports and when I take them off, my hands swell up like balloons. Putting bags of frozen vegetable on them helps a little, but there's not much I can do here.
Legs/Ankles: My ankles and feet swell up a little, not too bad. But I've noticed my legs swelling and it's not pretty. All of a sudden, my legs are hideous and I have trouble looking a them when I'm in shorts. My left heel is perpetually numb and it's difficult to lift my legs to put on clothes. My left arch is starting to give way and I need to buy arches to put inside of my shoes.
Belly: Is killing me. I don't know how much bigger I can get without exploding. Seriously folks, I am very concerned. My OB says I'll be fine, but I am personally concerned about how uncomfortable I am. My belly is tight as a drum and the slightest pressure of my fingers causes the skin to turn white. (you know when you get sunburned and you touch the skin...that's what it seems like.) I have to be careful not to bump into things (like the edge of the door when exiting a room) and I can no longer easily put on shoes or socks.
Back: Despite seeing my chiropractor weekly, my upper back is a mess. I can't lie on my belly on her table anymore so adjusting my upper back is essentially out of the question. Standing for more than 5-10 minutes is difficult on my lower back, and walking anywhere is pretty much out. I can walk from here to there and back....not much more. Going up & down stairs is very difficult as it takes me several minutes to catch my breath - so DH is fetching things from the other floor whenever I need something. Sitting is no fun either. Unless I'm lying on the couch on my side, I'm pretty much uncomfortable.
And I have 3 weeks of work to go, and 9 weeks of pregnancy to go. I have little bouts of cying here and there when I'm frustrated and uncomfortable, but I'm trying very hard to think of the happy ending. I know it will all be worth it. But damn...this is frickin' hard people.
9 comments:
Oh yes, it is the hard yards now. Just think, when it is all over, you'll only remember the good parts.
My physician suggested trying to keep your hands elevated to get some relief from carpal tunnel. I used to sleep with them on a pillow so they were elevated. Hope that helps...
Sorry you're feeling so uncomfortable.
I can only tell you -- remember to stay hydrated.
27 weeks is a good milestone. Here's to hoping you go 9 more weeks inspite of the discomfort.
Wishing you all the best,
Anna
I was uncomfortable enough at that point with one, let alone TWO in there! Hugs to you, mama. You're doing so well. I can see the finish line for you now, and it looks glorious up there.
xo
Nothing I can say will make it better, but you *can* do it. It will be better once you stop working. Maybe swimming (or just lounging in the water) would help with some of the discomfort - a nice pool of water would support your body and take away some of the pressure for a while. It was hard doing everything for two people when I was pg- I can't imagine doing everything for three!! You're amazing! xoxoxoxo
I feel you. I was physically miserable that last trimester.
I was 51 inches around - I could not fit into restaurant booths. I had carpal tunnel. I could not sleep. I could not walk - the pelvic pain was unbearable - more on that if you experience it. The list goes on and on.
You will get through it - I cried in the shower a few times - and I felt guilty for feeling so bad because of what I went through to get there and what others were still going through - however, we have every right to feel that way and to express [read complain] about the pain.
The problems really started postpartum - because of how debilitated I was, it was extremely difficult to go from basically sedentary to taking care of twins - running up and down steps, breast feeding, etc. etc. etc. So, I implore you to get as much rest as you can - but if you can walk or do something else to keep your strength up, go for it. Also - make them check your iron - I was not anemic at 28 weeks but I was pretty anemic at 33 and that will exhaust you.
Feel free to email me for more assvice!! lapmp1648@gmail.com
I can echo the swimming recommendation. Remember when I got pregnant and my back went out? That was sciatic nerve problems and I cramped so badly that I pulled my hamstrings. The rescue was ice on my back every 2 hours and swimming/ floating in a pool. It is so great for your alignment and taking the pressure off all your joints. It also helps with muscle tone in such a gentle way that you wont notice it.
It sucks to be so big and uncomfortable and this is a great place to offload - so moan away!!
Thinking of you.
E
I'm sorry to hear that you are so uncomfortable. Hang in there - you can do it! The end is in sight. Keep you thoughts on the great prizes at the end. Sub pregnancies are so very difficult in so many ways. I think the suggestions given are great and agree with the water thing to relieve the pressure. Big hugs to you.
Rachel
i hear you...it is hard. i remember the back ache, feeling huge, hardly being able to walk...and i had one! and about 7 weeks to go, which turned into only one! maybe you'll get your babes a bit early too. hang on and take care of yourself.
xoxo
You poor thing! I'm so sorry for all the physical pains and problems. It's good that you're able to sleep, but the rest sounds just unbearable! I remember being so uncomfortable - except I was already 35 or so weeks along. I hope you are able to find some relief...somehow.
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